“A marriage celebrant must recognise the social, cultural and legal significance of marriage and the marriage ceremony in the Australian community, and the importance of strong and respectful family relationships [...] A marriage celebrant must maintain an up-to-date knowledge about appropriate family relationships services in the community; and inform the parties to the marriage about the range of information and services available to them to enhance, and sustain them throughout, their relationship.” — Schedule 2, Code of Practice for marriage celebrants – Marriage Regulations 2017.
Most of us are aware of the divorce statistics. “Analysis of the most recent available data shows that the expectation of divorce is increasing. If a newly-born group of babies was exposed to 1997-1999 rates of marriage, widowhood, divorce, remarriage and mortality, 32% of their marriages would end in divorce. This is an increase on the proportion expected if 1990-1992 rates were applied (29%) and if 1985-1987 rates were applied (28%).” — Australian Bureau of Statistics
But relationship education (pre-marital courses, marriage education, guidance and counselling) is helping to increase the chances of a successful and lasting marriage. The results are noticeable - a 30% better chance of having your marriage be one of the success stories.
During your initial meeting with me, I will give you a copy of the official Form 14A, which provides you with some important information on the value of marriage education and marriage counselling. You can also read this online.
From 🔗 Family Relationships Online (An Australian Government Initiative):
Information you might find useful
- 10 ways to become a better partner - 10 steps you can take to maximise your relationships so that you feel valued, loved and nurtured, and to minimise becoming a relationship casualty.
- Managing conflict - Although conflict is a normal part of our relationships and is perfectly healthy if handled well, it sometimes escalates and becomes destructive. This factsheet offers tips and ideas for managing conflict well.
- Getting married - Information for couples intending to marry. This includes information about finding the right marriage celebrant, participating in a marriage ceremony, and getting married overseas.
- Family Relationships Online: Resources and publications - There is a wide range of services available to help families to build better relationships or to help deal with separation.
- Partners: A guide to successful relationships (downloadable PDF by Relationships Australia)
Get help
- Call the Family Relationship Advice Line on 1800 050 321 from 8 am to 8 pm, Monday to Friday, and 10 am to 4 pm on Saturday, except national public holidays
- Find a Family Relationship Centre near you
- Find Family Counselling
- Find local help near you
Useful articles
- Communication toolkit. Also see video: Good communication tips
- Building relationships. Also see video: Healthy relationships
- Conflict management. Also see video: Managing Conflict
- Family violence
For your interest, I have listed a few resources below of various recommended premarital education and marriage counselling services:
- Lifeworks
(Bayswater)
Email: lifeworks@lifeworks.com.au, or use the form.
Address: 1/666 Mountain Highway
Bayswater VIC 3153
Phone: 03 9654 7360
Fax: 03 9720 3698 - Relationships Australia (Boronia)
Email: boronia@rav.org.au
Address: 83 Boronia Road,
Boronia, VIC 3155
Phone: 03 9725 9964
Fax: 03 9723 4609 - CatholicCare Melbourne (Mitcham)
Email: mitcham@ccam.org.au
Address: 510-512 Whitehorse Road,
Mitcham, VIC 3132
Phone: 03 9873 4344 - Family Relationships Institute Inc.
Email: relate@relatewell.org.au
Address: 15 Barwon Street
Box Hill North VIC 3129
Phone: 03 9354 8854